I see various psychologists on Instagram trying to be clever about roundabout medical topics, and I understand that there is a lot of concrete heresy in their mouths. I want to pass by and not pay attention to the fools, but I remember the words from the song by Lyapis Trubetskoy about indifference, which kills no worse than a bullet. And I begin to be indignant.
One of the topics these idiots are pedaling is that low libido is normal if there are no problems in a couple. Well, it would seem that yes, it is normal in a couple (if both are like that), but in a population of more than one couple, it is not normal at all. It is a sign of poor health!
The thing is that in the modern world people are no longer interested in sex. And this is not just my statement. These are well-founded studies. This trend, for example, is already frightening in a number of countries. For example, in Japan. And it is far away, you will say.. But this crap is coming to us too
It is enough to pay attention to the younger generation, who avoid sexual relations in favor of various deviations - from constantly sitting on the Internet watching idiotic TikToks, to various quadrobobers/transgenders and other wildness.
The reasons for this behavior are complex. As an ardent conspiracy theorist (in the opinion of many rational people), I believe that the issue is primarily environmental factors: substances from plastic, artificial food, toxins - all of this is now harming the young (and not only) generation, and more than it did in my youth. There is objectively more of this crap
What should we all do? First, it is worth understanding that a healthy person aged 18-40 years old should have a libido of 3-5 intercourses per week. The exception may be periods of stress and a partner who is boring. You can consider this a reference.
If this number is lower, you should think about your health, or about the health of your partner in a couple. This includes hormonal status, insulin resistance, and lipid profile disorders. In general, I have already described markers more than once. They are in my blog.
In addition to objective physiological markers of libido, you should remember what kind of group you are in. What am I talking about?
For example, even a healthy man's testosterone will drop when in a group of old women or some masculine feminists. This is also research. Similarly with girls, if a girl is in a group of guys with low testosterone and non-dominant behavior - libido goes home. That is, this situation is both ways.
Well, and finally, I urge you to criticize all the non-specialists who deny human nature and substitute concepts. The modern world is full of idiotic propaganda. Moreover, it comes even from the lips of "authoritative" people who speak at TED, write books, teach at universities.
These are different leftists, globalists without any special knowledge and skills, but with access to mass media of disinformation.. Learn to recognize these people in the flow of information, the quality of your life and the lives of your children depends on it!
Here is someone else's article with links to research: https://hromadske.ua/ru/posts/ne-mogut-ne-hotyat-ili-ne-nuzhdayutsya-pochemu-lyudi-vse-menshe-zanimayutsya-seksom