I see various psychologists on Instagram trying to be clever about roundabout medical topics, and I understand that they are full of real heresy. I want to pass by and not pay attention to the fools, but I remember the words from Lyapis Trubetskoy's song about indifference, which kills no worse than a bullet. And I begin to be indignant.
One of the themes these idiots harp on is that low libido is normal if there are no problems in a couple. It might seem normal in a couple (if both are like that), but in a population of more than one couple, it's absolutely not normal. It's a sign of poor health!
The fact is, in the modern world, people are losing interest in sex. And this isn't just my statement. There are well-founded studies. This trend, for example, is already alarming in a number of countries. For example, in Japan. And it's far away, you might say. But this nonsense is coming to us too.
Just look at the younger generation, who shun sexual relations in favor of various deviations—from constantly sitting on the internet watching idiotic TikToks to various quadrobobers/transgenders and other nonsense.
The reasons for this behavior are complex. As an ardent conspiracy theorist (as many rational people agree), I believe the primary culprit is environmental factors: substances from plastic, artificial foods, toxins—all of this is now harming the younger generation (and not only), more than it did in my youth. There's objectively more of this crap now.
So what should we all do? First, it's important to understand that a healthy person aged 18-40 should have a libido of 3-5 sexual encounters per week. Exceptions might include periods of stress or a partner who's getting on your nerves. Consider this a reference.
If this number is lower, you should consider your health or that of your partner. This includes hormonal status, insulin resistance, and lipid profile imbalances. I've already described these markers several times. They're on my blog.
Besides objective physiological markers of libido, you should be mindful of the group you're in. What am I talking about?
For example, even a healthy man's testosterone will drop when he's around older women or masculine feminists. This is also research. Similarly, if a girl is around guys with low testosterone and non-dominant behavior, her libido goes home. So, it's a two-way street.
Finally, I urge you to criticize all those who deny human nature and misrepresent concepts. The modern world is full of idiotic propaganda. It even comes from "authoritative" people who speak at TED, write books, and teach at universities.
These are various leftists and globalists without much knowledge or skills, but with access to mass disinformation. Learn to recognize these people in the information flow; the quality of your life and the lives of your children depends on it!
Here is someone else's article with links to research: https://hromadske.ua/ru/posts/ne-mogut-ne-hotyat-ili-ne-nuzhdayutsya-pochemu-lyudi-vse-menshe-zanimayutsya-seksom
